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The New Baby and Me
The New Baby and Me

Nicky*, a donor mum, offers insight into her parenting journey

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We’ve been inviting parents to share their experience introducing a new baby into the family. Nicky, a midwife and mother to two, sent in her own slightly unusual but completely wonderful story over Facebook. Read it below:

My family is a little unusual. I am a single parent, and my second child was conceived using a donor. So, I suppose you could say I’m a single parent my choice. I have two sons: one is 10 and the other is 3 years old.

My first child was involved from the beginning. I discussed how he felt about having a sibling and when I was looking at donors, I talked to him about the ones I was interested in. He was excited when I told him I was pregnant, and wanted me to find out the sex at the anatomy scan. Although I would have preferred a surprise, I found out the sex for him.

I managed the situation by keeping my eldest son involved. Because there is such a gap between my children, he was old enough to understand and discuss the situation and his thoughts and feelings. He was involved in thinking of names.

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Five siblings eagerly await a new baby

When the baby was born I got my son a t-shirt with his name and no. 1 big brother on it. Also, I trusted him to help with the baby and I made sure we had time together without the baby, for instance trips to the cinema.

We’re inviting anyone who has a story about introducing a sibling into the family, to share it. If you would like to get involved please email or DM us at TinyOwl_Books 

*Names have been changed to protect anonymity 

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